Lisa

Well, he has one chance left on this death that he has accrued as secondary to gambling. We have involved his family. Everybody's involved. And basically, if he goes back one more time, we will be getting divorced. Right now, we're trying to work through it. We have older children. Two of the kids are older. He's my second marriage. But we do still have a seven or a nine and a... 12-year-olds.

And a 17-year-old that's younger.

And a 17-year-old that's younger.

And a 17-year-old that's younger.

Okay. Right now I earn about 4,700 a month. That's take home from social security. Um, And that's my total debt is the $13,000. I have no other income. I don't have any retirement.

Okay. Right now I earn about 4,700 a month. That's take home from social security. Um, And that's my total debt is the $13,000. I have no other income. I don't have any retirement.

Okay. Right now I earn about 4,700 a month. That's take home from social security. Um, And that's my total debt is the $13,000. I have no other income. I don't have any retirement.

Well, I pay the mortgage, which is pretty high. It's about $3,200 a month. And he pays all the utilities. And how much does he make?

Well, I pay the mortgage, which is pretty high. It's about $3,200 a month. And he pays all the utilities. And how much does he make?

Well, I pay the mortgage, which is pretty high. It's about $3,200 a month. And he pays all the utilities. And how much does he make?

40 plus, yes. What's he do? He works at a steel factory. The thing is, is that he borrowed out of his retirement without me knowing. So there's $200 a week that comes out for his retirement loan. How much was the total loan? The total loan for the retirement total, he's done it over a few different times. Noah, how much did you take out total? Okay. So $25,000 out of that.

40 plus, yes. What's he do? He works at a steel factory. The thing is, is that he borrowed out of his retirement without me knowing. So there's $200 a week that comes out for his retirement loan. How much was the total loan? The total loan for the retirement total, he's done it over a few different times. Noah, how much did you take out total? Okay. So $25,000 out of that.

40 plus, yes. What's he do? He works at a steel factory. The thing is, is that he borrowed out of his retirement without me knowing. So there's $200 a week that comes out for his retirement loan. How much was the total loan? The total loan for the retirement total, he's done it over a few different times. Noah, how much did you take out total? Okay. So $25,000 out of that.

Um, I took it off speakerphone. Oh yeah.

Um, I took it off speakerphone. Oh yeah.

Um, I took it off speakerphone. Oh yeah.

Currently, I'm on disability for Social Security because I'm an end-stage renal failure.

Currently, I'm on disability for Social Security because I'm an end-stage renal failure.

Currently, I'm on disability for Social Security because I'm an end-stage renal failure.

And we just bought the house and I had the money to put down. I had saved up the money, but I put a lot of it towards renovations, which wasn't smart when we first moved in instead of putting it on credit. For instance, like a new deck, I paid $20,000 cash for it. I made some really bad decisions.