Listener (Aaron)

Yeah, I completely agree. You've only been talking, dating for a month and, that's too soon to let someone give you text anxiety and when they're going to text me back. And you shouldn't be sitting there waiting for a text back and getting anxious. If he wants to, he will. Despite having opposite schedules, if he wanted to find time to connect, he would. So it might not be you.

And that's a hard thing to kind of get in your head where it's like, if someone's ghosting me or A situationship didn't work out. It's like, well, am I not enough? Like, that is so easy to fall into that way of thinking. But really, it's like, think about making friends or trying to interview for a job. It's like, you're not going to vibe with everyone. And how do you know you vibe with someone?

And that's a hard thing to kind of get in your head where it's like, if someone's ghosting me or A situationship didn't work out. It's like, well, am I not enough? Like, that is so easy to fall into that way of thinking. But really, it's like, think about making friends or trying to interview for a job. It's like, you're not going to vibe with everyone. And how do you know you vibe with someone?

And that's a hard thing to kind of get in your head where it's like, if someone's ghosting me or A situationship didn't work out. It's like, well, am I not enough? Like, that is so easy to fall into that way of thinking. But really, it's like, think about making friends or trying to interview for a job. It's like, you're not going to vibe with everyone. And how do you know you vibe with someone?

You date, you talk, you see. It might just not work, but it's not something to take personally. So I would do what you said. I'd honestly keep it really casual and just say, I think our schedules are a little different. I'd love to prioritize us finding time to go on some dates and connect. But if you can't do that, I'm going to go back on Hinge.

You date, you talk, you see. It might just not work, but it's not something to take personally. So I would do what you said. I'd honestly keep it really casual and just say, I think our schedules are a little different. I'd love to prioritize us finding time to go on some dates and connect. But if you can't do that, I'm going to go back on Hinge.

You date, you talk, you see. It might just not work, but it's not something to take personally. So I would do what you said. I'd honestly keep it really casual and just say, I think our schedules are a little different. I'd love to prioritize us finding time to go on some dates and connect. But if you can't do that, I'm going to go back on Hinge.

You're not always going to have class forever. The bottom line is this person also needs to make reciprocal effort. You're only a month in. And if there's not a mutual effort, a mutual excitement, a mutual respect...

You're not always going to have class forever. The bottom line is this person also needs to make reciprocal effort. You're only a month in. And if there's not a mutual effort, a mutual excitement, a mutual respect...

You're not always going to have class forever. The bottom line is this person also needs to make reciprocal effort. You're only a month in. And if there's not a mutual effort, a mutual excitement, a mutual respect...

don't overthink it and just move on to the next bird that you know don't put all your eggs in that basket if he's gonna put in the effort see where this goes you know you do get excited when you start dating someone new and there's that that initial crush and you want to talk to them and you want to spend time with them but it's got to be reciprocated let me ask you a

don't overthink it and just move on to the next bird that you know don't put all your eggs in that basket if he's gonna put in the effort see where this goes you know you do get excited when you start dating someone new and there's that that initial crush and you want to talk to them and you want to spend time with them but it's got to be reciprocated let me ask you a

don't overthink it and just move on to the next bird that you know don't put all your eggs in that basket if he's gonna put in the effort see where this goes you know you do get excited when you start dating someone new and there's that that initial crush and you want to talk to them and you want to spend time with them but it's got to be reciprocated let me ask you a

Yeah, I think it could cause him to wake up, but you also need to do it for the right reasons. You can't do it to get him to wake up. You can't use it as a manipulation tactic because it could come off that way. You're not going to put time into me. I'm going to see other people. Well, that really is the way it is.

Yeah, I think it could cause him to wake up, but you also need to do it for the right reasons. You can't do it to get him to wake up. You can't use it as a manipulation tactic because it could come off that way. You're not going to put time into me. I'm going to see other people. Well, that really is the way it is.

Yeah, I think it could cause him to wake up, but you also need to do it for the right reasons. You can't do it to get him to wake up. You can't use it as a manipulation tactic because it could come off that way. You're not going to put time into me. I'm going to see other people. Well, that really is the way it is.

But you can't use it as manipulation. And if you say that, you have to go on other dates. Absolutely. You can't say that with the intention of saying it just to get him to buck up.

But you can't use it as manipulation. And if you say that, you have to go on other dates. Absolutely. You can't say that with the intention of saying it just to get him to buck up.

But you can't use it as manipulation. And if you say that, you have to go on other dates. Absolutely. You can't say that with the intention of saying it just to get him to buck up.

Yeah. I think you absolutely should see other people.