Listener (Aaron)

Around our nine-year mark of being together, my husband, I'll call him T, and I had a conversation about our wants and needs and experiences, which led to the topic of sexual orientation and feeling like we missed out on a lot of experiences in our 20s. and the way we feel about each other.

Around our nine-year mark of being together, my husband, I'll call him T, and I had a conversation about our wants and needs and experiences, which led to the topic of sexual orientation and feeling like we missed out on a lot of experiences in our 20s. and the way we feel about each other.

Around our nine-year mark of being together, my husband, I'll call him T, and I had a conversation about our wants and needs and experiences, which led to the topic of sexual orientation and feeling like we missed out on a lot of experiences in our 20s. and the way we feel about each other.

We decided, mutually, to experiment with polyamory and date other people while still maintaining our marriage, which is going incredibly well for our relationship. This brings me to my issue. I've been dating my boyfriend B for a while now and have very strong feelings for him, and T has been dating his girlfriend K for a while now, and they seem to have a very strong relationship as well.

We decided, mutually, to experiment with polyamory and date other people while still maintaining our marriage, which is going incredibly well for our relationship. This brings me to my issue. I've been dating my boyfriend B for a while now and have very strong feelings for him, and T has been dating his girlfriend K for a while now, and they seem to have a very strong relationship as well.

We decided, mutually, to experiment with polyamory and date other people while still maintaining our marriage, which is going incredibly well for our relationship. This brings me to my issue. I've been dating my boyfriend B for a while now and have very strong feelings for him, and T has been dating his girlfriend K for a while now, and they seem to have a very strong relationship as well.

I've always been very close with my dad. However, we live in different states. We've always maintained consistent contact since we reconnected when I was around 21, divorce parent problems. And he is so good to my husband. That being said, he is also quite traditional when it comes to most things, including relationships.

I've always been very close with my dad. However, we live in different states. We've always maintained consistent contact since we reconnected when I was around 21, divorce parent problems. And he is so good to my husband. That being said, he is also quite traditional when it comes to most things, including relationships.

I've always been very close with my dad. However, we live in different states. We've always maintained consistent contact since we reconnected when I was around 21, divorce parent problems. And he is so good to my husband. That being said, he is also quite traditional when it comes to most things, including relationships.

I really want to share this part of my life with him because I'm incredibly happy with my boyfriend in addition to my marriage, and I feel like they would get along really well. But I'm afraid of him being disappointed or judging me and it causing problems in our relationship.

I really want to share this part of my life with him because I'm incredibly happy with my boyfriend in addition to my marriage, and I feel like they would get along really well. But I'm afraid of him being disappointed or judging me and it causing problems in our relationship.

I really want to share this part of my life with him because I'm incredibly happy with my boyfriend in addition to my marriage, and I feel like they would get along really well. But I'm afraid of him being disappointed or judging me and it causing problems in our relationship.

Additionally, my stepmother already doesn't like me and has caused some strain on the relationship with my father when I was a young kid, which I've been better at dealing with in adulthood, but this feels like too big of a deal to overcome negative feelings from my father that may be exacerbated by his wife.

Additionally, my stepmother already doesn't like me and has caused some strain on the relationship with my father when I was a young kid, which I've been better at dealing with in adulthood, but this feels like too big of a deal to overcome negative feelings from my father that may be exacerbated by his wife.

Additionally, my stepmother already doesn't like me and has caused some strain on the relationship with my father when I was a young kid, which I've been better at dealing with in adulthood, but this feels like too big of a deal to overcome negative feelings from my father that may be exacerbated by his wife.

I want to be open and honest with my dad because I love him and he's the person I want to talk to about everything. But I'm so scared that this will be too much for him and he thinks I'm weird or gross or that it means I've failed in my marriage.

I want to be open and honest with my dad because I love him and he's the person I want to talk to about everything. But I'm so scared that this will be too much for him and he thinks I'm weird or gross or that it means I've failed in my marriage.

I want to be open and honest with my dad because I love him and he's the person I want to talk to about everything. But I'm so scared that this will be too much for him and he thinks I'm weird or gross or that it means I've failed in my marriage.

Ideal outcome, to be able to be honest with my dad and maintain our relationship with him being happy with me so my boyfriend can meet my family the way I get to meet his. He's not poly, so I'm the only partner he's introducing to family.

Ideal outcome, to be able to be honest with my dad and maintain our relationship with him being happy with me so my boyfriend can meet my family the way I get to meet his. He's not poly, so I'm the only partner he's introducing to family.