Listener (Aaron)

You could definitely give him a choice in the matter. I think that's fair. I also think... It is an interesting thing because it's like you want to share your other boyfriend because you're excited and this is a part of your life and you feel like you shouldn't have to hide a part of your life. But at the same time, is this really anyone else's problem?

You could definitely give him a choice in the matter. I think that's fair. I also think... It is an interesting thing because it's like you want to share your other boyfriend because you're excited and this is a part of your life and you feel like you shouldn't have to hide a part of your life. But at the same time, is this really anyone else's problem?

Does anyone else deserve to have their life complicated? And does it complicate anyone's life? Or is it irrelevant because it doesn't directly affect them? But, you know, what's the harm in them knowing? It's a very, it's a complicated issue.

Does anyone else deserve to have their life complicated? And does it complicate anyone's life? Or is it irrelevant because it doesn't directly affect them? But, you know, what's the harm in them knowing? It's a very, it's a complicated issue.

Does anyone else deserve to have their life complicated? And does it complicate anyone's life? Or is it irrelevant because it doesn't directly affect them? But, you know, what's the harm in them knowing? It's a very, it's a complicated issue.

No, teach their own.

No, teach their own.

No, teach their own.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

You know, if this is something that is still a little more recent, like you've only been dating for two months, maybe wait. Maybe wait until you hit the nine-month mark or a year. Because I do think... I think that can make a difference. And you have to imagine the worst case scenario, right? Like when I'm faced with really challenging things, that's what I try to do.

You know, if this is something that is still a little more recent, like you've only been dating for two months, maybe wait. Maybe wait until you hit the nine-month mark or a year. Because I do think... I think that can make a difference. And you have to imagine the worst case scenario, right? Like when I'm faced with really challenging things, that's what I try to do.

You know, if this is something that is still a little more recent, like you've only been dating for two months, maybe wait. Maybe wait until you hit the nine-month mark or a year. Because I do think... I think that can make a difference. And you have to imagine the worst case scenario, right? Like when I'm faced with really challenging things, that's what I try to do.

Like, okay, worst case scenario here is your dad is uncomfortable with it. It hurts your relationship and you don't talk as much. Is that something you're willing to face right now for the time you've been with your boyfriend in order to share that you have a boyfriend? Or do you wait a little longer? Make sure it's serious.

Like, okay, worst case scenario here is your dad is uncomfortable with it. It hurts your relationship and you don't talk as much. Is that something you're willing to face right now for the time you've been with your boyfriend in order to share that you have a boyfriend? Or do you wait a little longer? Make sure it's serious.

Like, okay, worst case scenario here is your dad is uncomfortable with it. It hurts your relationship and you don't talk as much. Is that something you're willing to face right now for the time you've been with your boyfriend in order to share that you have a boyfriend? Or do you wait a little longer? Make sure it's serious.

Make sure you and your husband aren't going to close the relationship again. And then after a year, then you tell your dad. This guy, your boyfriend, could wake up tomorrow and say, hey, I actually don't want to share you. I'm not okay with this. Cause he's not Polly. So, you know, you're facing a lot of new dynamics and while you might be excited to share, maybe wait it out a little bit more too.

Make sure you and your husband aren't going to close the relationship again. And then after a year, then you tell your dad. This guy, your boyfriend, could wake up tomorrow and say, hey, I actually don't want to share you. I'm not okay with this. Cause he's not Polly. So, you know, you're facing a lot of new dynamics and while you might be excited to share, maybe wait it out a little bit more too.

Make sure you and your husband aren't going to close the relationship again. And then after a year, then you tell your dad. This guy, your boyfriend, could wake up tomorrow and say, hey, I actually don't want to share you. I'm not okay with this. Cause he's not Polly. So, you know, you're facing a lot of new dynamics and while you might be excited to share, maybe wait it out a little bit more too.