Lizzo
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You know what I mean? And I realized, oh, that's like, you know, I see something online. I'm like, I go down the rabbit hole. I'm like, but what happened? I want to know the drama. And it's like, girl. That is lowering your vibration. And like, I hate to even say lowering vibration because people don't think it's woo woo. It's like I'm literally lowering my waking state by doing that.
You know what I mean? And I realized, oh, that's like, you know, I see something online. I'm like, I go down the rabbit hole. I'm like, but what happened? I want to know the drama. And it's like, girl. That is lowering your vibration. And like, I hate to even say lowering vibration because people don't think it's woo woo. It's like I'm literally lowering my waking state by doing that.
You're lowering yourself and then you start to attract drama. Oh, my God. When you are what you eat, when you eat drama, you attract mother drama.
You're lowering yourself and then you start to attract drama. Oh, my God. When you are what you eat, when you eat drama, you attract mother drama.
I was so addicted to it. And I think like now I'm a better lover. And what I understand about love is love is like, there's no drama. It's like calm water. It's like peaceful water because love is a flow state.
I was so addicted to it. And I think like now I'm a better lover. And what I understand about love is love is like, there's no drama. It's like calm water. It's like peaceful water because love is a flow state.
You're at your best. You love it your best when you're just flowing. Don't try to understand it. Don't try to make it make sense. And don't try to like find problems with it. Just like love them. Yeah. You know, and be loved.
You're at your best. You love it your best when you're just flowing. Don't try to understand it. Don't try to make it make sense. And don't try to like find problems with it. Just like love them. Yeah. You know, and be loved.
We are as kind to others as we are to ourselves. I'm learning that. I'm learning the people who say the meanest things to me and about me are going through it. They struggling too. How are you going to be nice to me and say something nice about me when you talk down about yourself? And I don't even mean like people who have low self-esteem. I'm talking like, oh, stupid. Why did I do that?
We are as kind to others as we are to ourselves. I'm learning that. I'm learning the people who say the meanest things to me and about me are going through it. They struggling too. How are you going to be nice to me and say something nice about me when you talk down about yourself? And I don't even mean like people who have low self-esteem. I'm talking like, oh, stupid. Why did I do that?
I'm so stupid. Or like, oh, I look bad. Like, I don't like how I look. Like, oh, I hate myself. Like, it's little things like that, that you say over and over and over and over and your body's like, bet. You know? And that's why I'm so, man, I'm telling you, self-love can save, the world because it starts with you. Self-love could make this world a better loving place.
I'm so stupid. Or like, oh, I look bad. Like, I don't like how I look. Like, oh, I hate myself. Like, it's little things like that, that you say over and over and over and over and your body's like, bet. You know? And that's why I'm so, man, I'm telling you, self-love can save, the world because it starts with you. Self-love could make this world a better loving place.
You notice the people who are kind to themselves and love themselves, you're like, ooh, I like being around. You're so kind. You're so nice. Why are you so nice to me? It's like, because I'm nice to me. You know what I mean?
You notice the people who are kind to themselves and love themselves, you're like, ooh, I like being around. You're so kind. You're so nice. Why are you so nice to me? It's like, because I'm nice to me. You know what I mean?
But when I'm hard on myself and when I'm striving for perfection and when I'm beating myself up and when I'm doing the most- I can't control how I treat other people or how I look at other people or what I think about other people. When I'm in the trenches, the trenches are surrounding me. Now that I'm kinder to myself, and that doesn't even mean like, oh, I put on lotion every day and self-care.
But when I'm hard on myself and when I'm striving for perfection and when I'm beating myself up and when I'm doing the most- I can't control how I treat other people or how I look at other people or what I think about other people. When I'm in the trenches, the trenches are surrounding me. Now that I'm kinder to myself, and that doesn't even mean like, oh, I put on lotion every day and self-care.
I mean like, man, like the way I look at the world, the way I view the world, the way I view myself through the lens of the world is kinder. You know what I'm saying? And I think if everyone was a little kinder to themselves, I think we'd have less and less of the negativity in the world.
I mean like, man, like the way I look at the world, the way I view the world, the way I view myself through the lens of the world is kinder. You know what I'm saying? And I think if everyone was a little kinder to themselves, I think we'd have less and less of the negativity in the world.
Yes. Yes. I would say we could talk about my personal life because on a personal level, I do feel like there's just people who like our relationship just grew apart because we just don't even relate on the same things anymore. You know, I know a lot of people be like, oh, I grew out of that. It's like it's not really you grew out of it. You just grew apart from it. And that's fine.
Yes. Yes. I would say we could talk about my personal life because on a personal level, I do feel like there's just people who like our relationship just grew apart because we just don't even relate on the same things anymore. You know, I know a lot of people be like, oh, I grew out of that. It's like it's not really you grew out of it. You just grew apart from it. And that's fine.