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Louis Tomlinson

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1604 total appearances

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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

And it's interesting, again, because one of the things I learned from doing this podcast is this idea of learned helplessness and control and autonomy.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

Basically, TLDR, it says that people who feel like they have control have much better physiological health outcomes.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

They have less stress, they're more insulated, better psychological states, less anxiety, less depression, because they feel like they're in control of the situation.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

Yeah.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

There's this crazy study that I was reading about when I was writing my last book about these rats where they learn that they can't do anything about the situation.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

And they basically give up and they become submissive and they stop trying.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

And I think about this in the context of humans as well.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

From what your videographer told me, Cam, you were clearly not that.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

You were clearly someone that would push against Simon Cowell's record label as a young man.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

Yeah.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

And that's something I've had a few conversations with my friends, similar things about this.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

And I'm not certain why that was like inspired by, because it's brave, right?

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

To stare someone who at the time, at least in pop, was one of the most successful people in the music industry and say, no, you've got it wrong.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

Here's me, an 18 year old with no experience telling you you've got it wrong.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

I think what gave me confidence in those ideas is even if it wasn't a collective voice, even if it was just my voice delivering the message, it was always with collective intention.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

It would always be for the good of all of us.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

Making those decisions now on my own, they're not quite as easy.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

There's a lot of different kind of things at play.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

And again, it kind of comes from that Big Brother kind of role.

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Louis Tomlinson: "The Room Was Cold That Day". When The Police Knocked... I Just Knew

Again, I was the oldest in the band.