Louise McSharry

Like that's a thing that happens.

He gets dark and he says terrible things.

And

Essentially, he's in at his DJ decks and nobody's in there and then he decides to funnel all his annoyance that he's not getting attention, his drunk annoyance that he's not getting attention at Amanda.

He goes outside and he tells her to fuck off in front of everybody else.

And I think what was interesting about this is that because we as viewers are privy to conversations between Kyle and Amanda that maybe the other members of the cast wouldn't be in terms of when they actually happen in the house.

Like this is the first time for most of them to see Kyle speak to Amanda in this way, but we've seen this over and over and over again.

And like in this episode, there's a montage of Amanda being kind of disrespectful about Kyle behind his back and Kyle talking about the fact that seeing those moments air on the episodes has been really damaging to him and the relationship and enlightening to him in terms of the way that Amanda actually feels about him.

But I think the difference is that Amanda for years was there, was like diehard, like, you know, absolutely there for him, accepted him, like let go of things that he did.

And I think as we come into this series and over the last couple of years, it's just been clear that she hit everybody.

You know what this is like when you're in a relationship.

You just, you reach a point where you're like, I actually, I don't even care anymore.

Like it's gone too far.

Like, it's not the ick, it's far beyond the ick, but it's that feeling of being let down so many times that like, you're like, do I even like this person anymore?

And that really feels like where Amanda got to.

And clearly, I think it would have been better if she'd ended the relationship sooner.

It's not cool to talk about your partner behind their back in that way.

But I think she just was really, she felt really stuck.

And I can understand completely that that would be hurtful to Kyle when you're hearing your partner speak in that way about you behind your back.

But Kyle has been horrible to Amanda, to her face, over and over and over again.