Lucas

I've coached over 15,000 people live before.

I'm an expert at hearing things and seeing things.

And when I heard that, I went, that's not a joke.

And I'm going to tell you what I think is going on with this thing between you and your wife.

Because George has explained it beautifully.

So I have nothing to add to that.

But let me tell you what I think is going on.

Your wife is looking at this emotionally and you're looking at this logically.

And I think you look at all money things as logic.

Nothing wrong with that at all.

You're a smart guy.

You're not a goofball.

You're not a loser.

You've been very wise with money.

I just think you're going to have to decide in this situation how important is it to me to make the $2,000 every year and either bank it or buy the mountain bike off of my interest and I feel so good about my logical choice or do I want to meet my wife where she is and where she is emotionally and help her feel safe.

I think that's the choice.

That's my read.

And I think you just look at it totally different than she does.

I think you need to walk a mile in her shoes for a little bit.

Welcome back to The Ramsey Show in the Fairwinds Credit Union Studio.