Lynn

Yes.

So, um, before, like the summer before my accident, I started going to therapy, just trying to, um, have a little more self care.

So I'm, I've been married for 11 years.

I have three step sons.

Um, and I was just putting everybody else first.

So I was trying to reclaim my,

my peace, my happiness, you know, without always giving myself to everybody else.

Um, so then I had my accident and suddenly I needed everybody a lot.

Um, and it was a big change in our household because I, I cooked, I cleaned, I loved being a wife and mom and doing all the things.

Um, and then suddenly I couldn't.

So it was a big shift and I just,

My husband fell into pretty deep depression.

He's got a high ACEs score.

He's got a lot going on.

He's in law enforcement.

He's studying for the bar now.

So there's just been, he's got his own stuff too.

But I kind of take it personally because now I need a lot more and he's really withdrawn emotionally, physically.

And I'm just trying to figure out how to keep, keep myself,

happy.