Madelaine Petsch
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Podcast Appearances
There's no need for us to fight.
If I just tell you like, hey, I'm really overwhelmed today.
I have nothing to give, but I could be an ear for you if you just want to talk.
Then that's the kind of boundaries that I have in my life.
Or like with my friends, if...
I mean, I'm not super boundary with some of my friends.
Some of my friends, it's like an open-door policy.
I'm willy-nilly, but I think it's a case-by-case basis finding boundaries.
And I also, I really do lean on my therapist pretty heavily to decide when boundaries are important.
And I think that having that really non-biased person to talk to who's not your mother is good.
But I also, I communicate boundaries.
I don't just create them and then stonewall somebody.
I think that's important.
Okay, so imagine we're in like a giant field with like hedges around it, right?
And it's only got the hedges around it.
And there's the X at the very end of the field and you're standing at the beginning and someone else is there.
You guys can both meet at the X easily, right?
Or you can put up almost like little maze walls to get there in a way that feels safer for both of you.
It's not you're saying, you're not saying no to that person.