Maria Wendt

We're three years in February.

It should be way harder to get married and way faster to get unmarried.

Just a lot of different things.

Yeah.

Yeah.

People should like know that.

My therapist says it's two years is average.

People don't realize that.

And you know, I didn't owe my ex-husband any loyalty, but I owed the marriage loyalty.

And it felt really important for me to close that chapter fully before trying to start a new one.

And so I've been very intentional to not date at all, to just stay and honor that commitment before.

Yeah, so I've been very intentionally single

Not dating at all.

And it's been hard.

When I made that commitment to myself, I didn't think it was going to take three years.

But it has been so healing and so healthy.

And I feel like I stayed in such integrity.

There have been so many great guys who have wanted to start something up with me.

And there's been lots of times where I wanted to justify it.

But sticking to that commitment has just been such a confidence-boosting thing.