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And then I moved about two hours away from him. And then he followed eventually because he was waiting on his house to sell. When he sold his house, I said, you know, why don't you just stay with me for a little bit? Because he was trying to buy another house. And so he said, oh yeah, that's a great idea. We can like see how that goes. Looking back, it was not a great idea, but why not?
Just because he hadn't said I love you yet. And I was just like, I don't it was supposed to be temporary. And then when he did move in, everything went great to where when he was looking at houses, he was considering me moving with him into his new house. And I don't know. So fast forward, we get he goes to Thanksgiving with me with my family goes to Christmas with me with my family.
Just because he hadn't said I love you yet. And I was just like, I don't it was supposed to be temporary. And then when he did move in, everything went great to where when he was looking at houses, he was considering me moving with him into his new house. And I don't know. So fast forward, we get he goes to Thanksgiving with me with my family goes to Christmas with me with my family.
Just because he hadn't said I love you yet. And I was just like, I don't it was supposed to be temporary. And then when he did move in, everything went great to where when he was looking at houses, he was considering me moving with him into his new house. And I don't know. So fast forward, we get he goes to Thanksgiving with me with my family goes to Christmas with me with my family.
And then after the new year, he got distant and I brought up, hey, I feel a little disconnected from you right now. Something I'd like learn from your show to ask. And he was like, yeah, I actually think we're a little too comfortable and like too complacent. And I'm like, OK, what does that mean? Exactly. I was just like, what do you mean?
And then after the new year, he got distant and I brought up, hey, I feel a little disconnected from you right now. Something I'd like learn from your show to ask. And he was like, yeah, I actually think we're a little too comfortable and like too complacent. And I'm like, OK, what does that mean? Exactly. I was just like, what do you mean?
And then after the new year, he got distant and I brought up, hey, I feel a little disconnected from you right now. Something I'd like learn from your show to ask. And he was like, yeah, I actually think we're a little too comfortable and like too complacent. And I'm like, OK, what does that mean? Exactly. I was just like, what do you mean?
And he was like, I think like, because at that point, he was like, well, this was supposed to be temporary. And now we're talking about me staying here because he had put in an offer on a house and it didn't work out. So then he was going to stay with me till my lease was up. And then we were going to move together. Okay. And I said, basically, like, okay.
And he was like, I think like, because at that point, he was like, well, this was supposed to be temporary. And now we're talking about me staying here because he had put in an offer on a house and it didn't work out. So then he was going to stay with me till my lease was up. And then we were going to move together. Okay. And I said, basically, like, okay.
And he was like, I think like, because at that point, he was like, well, this was supposed to be temporary. And now we're talking about me staying here because he had put in an offer on a house and it didn't work out. So then he was going to stay with me till my lease was up. And then we were going to move together. Okay. And I said, basically, like, okay.
And he's like, well, this was supposed to be temporary. And you kind of pressured me into moving or like staying here. And I said, no, I just expressed how I felt. And I was excited. And I thought things were going well. And you expressed the same thing back is how I took that. He's like, oh yeah, you're right. And I was like, okay. And so he was just getting like a little distant.
And he's like, well, this was supposed to be temporary. And you kind of pressured me into moving or like staying here. And I said, no, I just expressed how I felt. And I was excited. And I thought things were going well. And you expressed the same thing back is how I took that. He's like, oh yeah, you're right. And I was like, okay. And so he was just getting like a little distant.
And he's like, well, this was supposed to be temporary. And you kind of pressured me into moving or like staying here. And I said, no, I just expressed how I felt. And I was excited. And I thought things were going well. And you expressed the same thing back is how I took that. He's like, oh yeah, you're right. And I was like, okay. And so he was just getting like a little distant.
And then I said, well, do you think you can get there? Like saying like, I love you. Cause this had become like a little bit of a topic. And then he had always said like, absolutely. Yes. Even before he put an offer on a house after that, he said, absolutely. And now he said, I don't know. So then I was just like, okay, and start freaking out. And I don't know.
And then I said, well, do you think you can get there? Like saying like, I love you. Cause this had become like a little bit of a topic. And then he had always said like, absolutely. Yes. Even before he put an offer on a house after that, he said, absolutely. And now he said, I don't know. So then I was just like, okay, and start freaking out. And I don't know.
And then I said, well, do you think you can get there? Like saying like, I love you. Cause this had become like a little bit of a topic. And then he had always said like, absolutely. Yes. Even before he put an offer on a house after that, he said, absolutely. And now he said, I don't know. So then I was just like, okay, and start freaking out. And I don't know.
So then we talked over the next like few weeks and it led to us breaking up. And I told him like, okay, well, what do you think love is like the next day? And then he couldn't really tell me. So I said, well, maybe I said, are you still going to therapy? And he said, no. And I said, well, why did you stop? You know, you got divorced.
So then we talked over the next like few weeks and it led to us breaking up. And I told him like, okay, well, what do you think love is like the next day? And then he couldn't really tell me. So I said, well, maybe I said, are you still going to therapy? And he said, no. And I said, well, why did you stop? You know, you got divorced.
So then we talked over the next like few weeks and it led to us breaking up. And I told him like, okay, well, what do you think love is like the next day? And then he couldn't really tell me. So I said, well, maybe I said, are you still going to therapy? And he said, no. And I said, well, why did you stop? You know, you got divorced.
And I found out a lot more about his divorce in this conversation and like things that he wasn't necessarily like upfront with me about. And he was like omitting.