Marissa

And he is bigger than me. So being put in like us in the bathroom talking and whatnot. And I'm just like, Babe, just calm down. And it's like, this is literally... Because he's like yelling at you. Literally yelling at me. And I'm just like, I need you to calm down because literally production's outside. And I don't want them to come in here with cameras. That's protection. Okay. First time.

And instead, like me doing like that, pushing my arms down and just being like, no, you're going to listen to me. And I'm just like, I don't want it to get to the point where it's going to be a physical altercation. It went so left. And he was saying things that we were all like, what is happening? Like, it was like he was spitting out trauma. That he had.

And instead, like me doing like that, pushing my arms down and just being like, no, you're going to listen to me. And I'm just like, I don't want it to get to the point where it's going to be a physical altercation. It went so left. And he was saying things that we were all like, what is happening? Like, it was like he was spitting out trauma. That he had.

And instead, like me doing like that, pushing my arms down and just being like, no, you're going to listen to me. And I'm just like, I don't want it to get to the point where it's going to be a physical altercation. It went so left. And he was saying things that we were all like, what is happening? Like, it was like he was spitting out trauma. That he had.

Like military and all that.

Like military and all that.

Like military and all that.

Yeah. He was like, you know what I've been through. And I'm like, I don't actually. It was like, it took us all by surprise. All because you didn't want to talk to him? It was, I don't know what it was. And it was like scary, not saying that I was scared of him. Yeah. But scary to see that emotion come out. And I don't recognize him. Right.

Yeah. He was like, you know what I've been through. And I'm like, I don't actually. It was like, it took us all by surprise. All because you didn't want to talk to him? It was, I don't know what it was. And it was like scary, not saying that I was scared of him. Yeah. But scary to see that emotion come out. And I don't recognize him. Right.

Yeah. He was like, you know what I've been through. And I'm like, I don't actually. It was like, it took us all by surprise. All because you didn't want to talk to him? It was, I don't know what it was. And it was like scary, not saying that I was scared of him. Yeah. But scary to see that emotion come out. And I don't recognize him. Right.

But at the same time, just like he had said at the reunion, I hate that this was our story. I didn't want this to be our story. And we also didn't know if we were going to get married or not at that point. But if we were, I didn't want this to be something that we'd look back on and be like, oh, but we did have that horrible fight or whatever.

But at the same time, just like he had said at the reunion, I hate that this was our story. I didn't want this to be our story. And we also didn't know if we were going to get married or not at that point. But if we were, I didn't want this to be something that we'd look back on and be like, oh, but we did have that horrible fight or whatever.

But at the same time, just like he had said at the reunion, I hate that this was our story. I didn't want this to be our story. And we also didn't know if we were going to get married or not at that point. But if we were, I didn't want this to be something that we'd look back on and be like, oh, but we did have that horrible fight or whatever.

And so I remember I was talking to my production team and I was just like, I'll just take the blame for it all. I'll take the blame because I know he's not going to be able to handle it.

And so I remember I was talking to my production team and I was just like, I'll just take the blame for it all. I'll take the blame because I know he's not going to be able to handle it.

And so I remember I was talking to my production team and I was just like, I'll just take the blame for it all. I'll take the blame because I know he's not going to be able to handle it.

But when they had left, they left us. We like, you know, said our good nights or whatever. We calmed down. Everybody's like, okay, we're good. He had gotten upset again because I had told production it's getting physical to get them to come in. So he took that as you're telling them I put my hands on you. I'm like, I'm not saying that.

But when they had left, they left us. We like, you know, said our good nights or whatever. We calmed down. Everybody's like, okay, we're good. He had gotten upset again because I had told production it's getting physical to get them to come in. So he took that as you're telling them I put my hands on you. I'm like, I'm not saying that.

But when they had left, they left us. We like, you know, said our good nights or whatever. We calmed down. Everybody's like, okay, we're good. He had gotten upset again because I had told production it's getting physical to get them to come in. So he took that as you're telling them I put my hands on you. I'm like, I'm not saying that.

I'm saying that it's getting intense and I need someone else to calm me down because I can't do it. I don't have the capacity to do it. And so because of that, he then throws a temper tantrum and it accelerates and accelerates to the point where, you know, call him out his name. and then he leaves. But at that point, I'm just like, yes, I shouldn't have done that.