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Marissa

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1911 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

I was somebody that they were responsible to.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

As we continued on with the University of Utah, that's when we started depositions.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

A deposition is basically when the opposing side gets to take your statement.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

It's recorded and they try to ask you questions, but your lawyer is there and your lawyer can object to questions that are asked, but you still have to answer them.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

And that's just later for court.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

where they can comment that they already objected to that question that was asked.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

So I had a deposition with a lawyer for the University of Utah.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

There were two other people there who were higher up at the U. And I had my lawyer there and assistant advocate

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

It was hours long.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

When I was deposed, I was nervous because I felt like they were going to try to use my words against me.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

Luckily, I had really good lawyers and they prepared me really well.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

During my deposition, they were trying to make the point that I wasn't a student there and that their responsibility was not mine.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

To me, I tried to make it clear to them that there were so many things that I did on that campus.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

And also the bigger picture that this person was not safe on their campus and they really didn't care.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

So going through that deposition obviously was hard because it brings up old feelings.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

Preparing for it too is hard because you have to go through everything.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

You have to remember things that a traumatized brain tries to understand.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

delete so I think that that made it really hard but I do feel like that I was as prepared as I could be and my lawyers were really good at helping me they were really good at objecting when they needed to so that was really helpful

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

So I had that deposition and I felt pretty good about it.

Something Was Wrong
S25 Ep16: Your Voice Matters

And then they also deposed my friend who was with me at the Title IX meeting with the University of Utah.