Mark Manson

Sometimes I look back at my former lifestyle and I miss it. I get nostalgic. I'm like, oh man, remember, like, God, those parties were so much fun. And there's like a little bit of sadness that comes along with it. But that's also one of the most profound transformational growths that's happened to me in the last couple of years, right?

Sometimes I look back at my former lifestyle and I miss it. I get nostalgic. I'm like, oh man, remember, like, God, those parties were so much fun. And there's like a little bit of sadness that comes along with it. But that's also one of the most profound transformational growths that's happened to me in the last couple of years, right?

Sometimes I look back at my former lifestyle and I miss it. I get nostalgic. I'm like, oh man, remember, like, God, those parties were so much fun. And there's like a little bit of sadness that comes along with it. But that's also one of the most profound transformational growths that's happened to me in the last couple of years, right?

Sometimes I look back at my former lifestyle and I miss it. I get nostalgic. I'm like, oh man, remember, like, God, those parties were so much fun. And there's like a little bit of sadness that comes along with it. But that's also one of the most profound transformational growths that's happened to me in the last couple of years, right?

Sometimes I look back at my former lifestyle and I miss it. I get nostalgic. I'm like, oh man, remember, like, God, those parties were so much fun. And there's like a little bit of sadness that comes along with it. But that's also one of the most profound transformational growths that's happened to me in the last couple of years, right?

Sometimes I look back at my former lifestyle and I miss it. I get nostalgic. I'm like, oh man, remember, like, God, those parties were so much fun. And there's like a little bit of sadness that comes along with it. But that's also one of the most profound transformational growths that's happened to me in the last couple of years, right?

Sometimes I look back at my former lifestyle and I miss it. I get nostalgic. I'm like, oh man, remember, like, God, those parties were so much fun. And there's like a little bit of sadness that comes along with it. But that's also one of the most profound transformational growths that's happened to me in the last couple of years, right?

Sometimes I look back at my former lifestyle and I miss it. I get nostalgic. I'm like, oh man, remember, like, God, those parties were so much fun. And there's like a little bit of sadness that comes along with it. But that's also one of the most profound transformational growths that's happened to me in the last couple of years, right?

Sometimes I look back at my former lifestyle and I miss it. I get nostalgic. I'm like, oh man, remember, like, God, those parties were so much fun. And there's like a little bit of sadness that comes along with it. But that's also one of the most profound transformational growths that's happened to me in the last couple of years, right?

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

So generally speaking, most growth comes from some aspect of loss. Not all the time, but most of the time.

Yes, because the way our mind works is that however you choose to define yourself, you are going to start defending that definition. So if you define yourself differently poorly or superficially, you're gonna end up spending a lot of energy and effort defending a really poor or superficial definition of who you are.