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Mark Manson

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13122 total appearances

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SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Like there are gonna be days, no matter how well your environment's set up, no matter how many nudges and like,

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

how much friction you remove from whatever your goal is, there are going to be days where you're like, I really don't want to do this.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Right.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And that's the moment where willpower kicks in.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Right.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And it's like, okay, I have to like maintain consistency here.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So it does have a place, but like the goal should be to use it as sparingly as possible.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

That's a good way to go about it too.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And this is something James talks about a lot too, right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

He says that you don't rise to the level of your goals.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

He says you sink to the level of your systems.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Generally speaking, in that moment when you are super motivated,

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

yes, that effort is better channeled into building a system that is gonna make the behavior inevitable rather than just doing the behavior a lot for a short period of time.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Well, and there are ways to make the willpower

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

work for you a little bit, right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So one of the things we haven't talked about yet is social pressure, like the positivity of social pressure, right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So like you go to CrossFit, like one of the powerful things about CrossFit is that it leverages social pressure to make you work out harder, right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

They put you in teams and you like go for PRs and you compete against each other and it's super fun, right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So you get these amazing workouts because you're surrounded by people that you're gonna feel like a dick if you're the one slacking.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

You wouldn't have.