Mart Green

So I brought a coach in to fix, you know, help my wife and help, you know, some of my kids who are marrying these people that I didn't raise. Right. And so, So they come, they talk about trust. I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, trust. I'm a pretty good trust builder. That guy's gifted me with that. And then he asked, how are you with emotional trust? And I'm like, oh, just a second here.

So I brought a coach in to fix, you know, help my wife and help, you know, some of my kids who are marrying these people that I didn't raise. Right. And so, So they come, they talk about trust. I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, trust. I'm a pretty good trust builder. That guy's gifted me with that. And then he asked, how are you with emotional trust? And I'm like, oh, just a second here.

First of all, I don't know what you're talking about. Emotional trust. Well, I said, well, Mark, do people trust you with their emotions? And I'm like, oh, my gosh. So as we dug deeper in that, I realized that when my wife came to me with her emotions, I just naturally, because since I was 19 years old, every time somebody brings me a problem, they want me to fix it. And so I'm trying to fix it.

First of all, I don't know what you're talking about. Emotional trust. Well, I said, well, Mark, do people trust you with their emotions? And I'm like, oh, my gosh. So as we dug deeper in that, I realized that when my wife came to me with her emotions, I just naturally, because since I was 19 years old, every time somebody brings me a problem, they want me to fix it. And so I'm trying to fix it.

First of all, I don't know what you're talking about. Emotional trust. Well, I said, well, Mark, do people trust you with their emotions? And I'm like, oh, my gosh. So as we dug deeper in that, I realized that when my wife came to me with her emotions, I just naturally, because since I was 19 years old, every time somebody brings me a problem, they want me to fix it. And so I'm trying to fix it.

And he says, she doesn't want you to do that. She wants you to go down in the well with her. And I'm like, oh, no, I'm not going down the well with her. I'm trying to get her up out of that well. No, no, she wants you to feel what she feels. Her feelings are real and stuff like that. And so through a process, so that's one of my deep wounds is realizing I hurt some of my family members.

And he says, she doesn't want you to do that. She wants you to go down in the well with her. And I'm like, oh, no, I'm not going down the well with her. I'm trying to get her up out of that well. No, no, she wants you to feel what she feels. Her feelings are real and stuff like that. And so through a process, so that's one of my deep wounds is realizing I hurt some of my family members.

And he says, she doesn't want you to do that. She wants you to go down in the well with her. And I'm like, oh, no, I'm not going down the well with her. I'm trying to get her up out of that well. No, no, she wants you to feel what she feels. Her feelings are real and stuff like that. And so through a process, so that's one of my deep wounds is realizing I hurt some of my family members.

I had to go back, especially the more artistic they were because they live out of their feelings, that I realized that I'd hurt them because of my personality because I just assumed everybody's like me, right? And they're not. And so that deep wound of realizing that she didn't want me to fix it. So how can I let people trust me with their emotions? Am I a safe place?

I had to go back, especially the more artistic they were because they live out of their feelings, that I realized that I'd hurt them because of my personality because I just assumed everybody's like me, right? And they're not. And so that deep wound of realizing that she didn't want me to fix it. So how can I let people trust me with their emotions? Am I a safe place?

I had to go back, especially the more artistic they were because they live out of their feelings, that I realized that I'd hurt them because of my personality because I just assumed everybody's like me, right? And they're not. And so that deep wound of realizing that she didn't want me to fix it. So how can I let people trust me with their emotions? Am I a safe place?

For people to come with their emotions.

For people to come with their emotions.

For people to come with their emotions.

Yeah, yeah, but you know me in the later years there. In the earlier years, and so that's a wound. So anyway.

Yeah, yeah, but you know me in the later years there. In the earlier years, and so that's a wound. So anyway.

Yeah, yeah, but you know me in the later years there. In the earlier years, and so that's a wound. So anyway.

Yeah. Power dynamics are real. You know, even though you don't feel them or you want to, people know, oh, you have a lot of money or you've done these kinds of things. So they kind of feel that. You don't feel that toward yourself, but it's there.

Yeah. Power dynamics are real. You know, even though you don't feel them or you want to, people know, oh, you have a lot of money or you've done these kinds of things. So they kind of feel that. You don't feel that toward yourself, but it's there.

Yeah. Power dynamics are real. You know, even though you don't feel them or you want to, people know, oh, you have a lot of money or you've done these kinds of things. So they kind of feel that. You don't feel that toward yourself, but it's there.