Marta

Stimmt. Zeitkapseln machen wir auch schon länger keine mehr. Das ist irgendwie zu spooky.

Stimmt. Zeitkapseln machen wir auch schon länger keine mehr. Das ist irgendwie zu spooky.

Fast Geburtstag.

Fast Geburtstag.

Am 1. kommt die Sendung? Stimmt.

Am 1. kommt die Sendung? Stimmt.

Hi, Dave. I'm doing okay. Good. Thanks for taking my call.

Hi, Dave. I'm doing okay. Good. Thanks for taking my call.

So I... I'm 57 years old. I've been married for 33 years, and I've never managed our joint financials. But I find myself that that was a big mistake on my part, and I need help with trying to figure out how to sort out my finances. I have a house that's in my name, and my husband has gambling problems. that I just discovered and it's been snowballing since I started discovering the problems.

So I... I'm 57 years old. I've been married for 33 years, and I've never managed our joint financials. But I find myself that that was a big mistake on my part, and I need help with trying to figure out how to sort out my finances. I have a house that's in my name, and my husband has gambling problems. that I just discovered and it's been snowballing since I started discovering the problems.

I signed a HELOC not knowing what I actually was signing. So I owe $90,000 of that and haven't done taxes for four years. So I know that at least I owe $10,000 out of to the IRS on top of everything else I probably owe because he was taking money of my retirement without my knowledge. And so that's going to come down the pike for me. And I'm just overwhelmed about how to get things done.

I signed a HELOC not knowing what I actually was signing. So I owe $90,000 of that and haven't done taxes for four years. So I know that at least I owe $10,000 out of to the IRS on top of everything else I probably owe because he was taking money of my retirement without my knowledge. And so that's going to come down the pike for me. And I'm just overwhelmed about how to get things done.

How did you find out? I found out a letter because, you know, he handled the mail. He handled everything. I opened a letter from Fidelity and found out that he had borrowed

How did you find out? I found out a letter because, you know, he handled the mail. He handled everything. I opened a letter from Fidelity and found out that he had borrowed

money from there and I confronted them about it and that was last year and he said he was paying and he did pay it and I told him not to take any more money but he continued to do that not only that but he had taken money prior years and he never told me that he's got 10 counts because he also stole money from a non-profit that he was the treasurer are you still together unfortunately yes because

money from there and I confronted them about it and that was last year and he said he was paying and he did pay it and I told him not to take any more money but he continued to do that not only that but he had taken money prior years and he never told me that he's got 10 counts because he also stole money from a non-profit that he was the treasurer are you still together unfortunately yes because

And people say I'm too nice. Wow. Getting a divorce is going to be very expensive. And so I'm trying to get my finances in order. He's just delusional.

And people say I'm too nice. Wow. Getting a divorce is going to be very expensive. And so I'm trying to get my finances in order. He's just delusional.

Oh, no. We did counseling. He was not...

Oh, no. We did counseling. He was not...