Martha Beck

The force picked you up and threw you to each other.

Tell me where I'm wrong here.

No, you're correct.

I love that story because it's pure magic.

I freaking hate it.

Here's an interesting thing.

There's a ton of research that shows the moment you start lying, your body starts going to hell.

Your immune system starts to crash.

Your energy gets lower.

Your muscles get weaker.

So when you are going to your horrible job and going, every day in every way, this is getting better and better.

Yeah.

You're actually just lying and lying and you get weaker and sicker.

I got so sick of my professor job that I would pull up my car in the parking lot and I didn't have the strength to open the car door because I hated that job so much.

So after you say, fuck this, I hate you all, or I'm dead and I don't care, then you say, here's what I would like you to say.

Here's what I want you to do.

Here's how I want you to treat me.

I want you to treat me like my opinion matters.

I want you to treat me like I'm free to become whatever I want.

You just write down what they should be doing.