Martha Stewish

I remember that like money being like, it's mine, but I can't touch it mindset.

And then I just kind of have set that up for myself now.

But one of the best things that could have ever happened to me, and I hope that if the people who don't have people telling them this early on in their careers, if they can hear me talk or someone talk, your pension fund that work gives you.

start investing or start putting your money into that from day one because that is an investment that is investing and i didn't realize that until embarrassing oh my gosh same and like no one explains to you like you're like if you have a pension you're an investor what is with that why is it's the most simple thing yeah can we talk about your value spending so this is something that you talk about a lot online as well and i really love it and i almost wonder if i could be a

Let's start with explaining what does it mean to feel aligned with how you spend your money?

I can't take complete credit for this concept of your authentic code.

I did a manifestation course, okay?

I listened to this podcast called, I think it's called To Be Magnetic.

And she has this course that you pay like a subscription for, this year-long manifestation course.

A whole year?

Yeah, so you have to commit to the year.

In there, they talk about when you write your like manifestation list to really like align with what your values are.

And to do that, you need to work out what your authentic code is.

So when you think about, for instance, like let's say on my manifestation list was Range Rover.

Mm-hmm.

I would think to myself, like, OK, what actually is it about the experience of having the Range Rover that aligns to my authentic code?

And genuinely, it's about it's not about showing anyone that I have a Range Rover.

It's genuinely about like feeling really safe in a car, feeling really comfortable, having heated seats like I love comfort.

OK, see, I would want it because it makes me look cool.

Okay, another perfect example is like, if you got a business class flight, would the thing that makes you so excited about having a business class flight be the champagne photograph that you can take before you take off?