Mary

Hi, Nick.

I'm Mary.

I'm 25 and I have a crush on my coworker, but I work in HR.

Well, so my dilemma is I know workplace relationships are pretty taboo in a corporate environment.

And HR is who puts all the policies in place.

So my question is, is this even worth pursuing?

And if so, how do I go about it?

I can give some background.

Yeah.

So there's a guy I met at work a few months ago who I used to sit by and our conversations have always been really easy and fun and even flirty at times.

Plus he's like exactly the kind of guy I'm looking for.

So I've been single for a few years and I've gotten really granular about what I'm looking for in my future boyfriend or husband.

And he checks a lot of those boxes and he's smart.

He's respectful.

He has good goals.

We get along really well and he's just really cute.

Well, we're still getting to know each other.

Absolutely.

And just like with any kind of relationship, we're still just getting to know each other.

So it's just been surface level so far.