Mary

I just want to see if there's something there, but that's where I'm struggling because is that crossing a line?

I don't know since the policy is not stating that it would be, but I just have never hung out with coworkers outside of work.

It's not something I would normally do.

I know.

I think that is, I just like to keep my work and personal life separate.

So this is all new to me and I don't know how to go about it.

Should I even be the one pursuing this?

Like, do I make the move?

Because I talked to my brother about it just to get a guy's perspective.

And he said, you kind of have to be the one pursuing him because as a guy, he's probably not going to want to risk his job if he's worrying about

Too strong with the HR girl.

I know.

But as a girl, I've never been the one to chase after a guy or move.

And it's just not the dynamic that I normally want.

And I definitely don't want to scare him off.

That's what I'm scared of, too, because he's respectful and he's a little shy and.

I'm so scared.

I have never done that before.

How do I open that door?

How do I like casually slip that into a conversation?