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Massimo Pigliucci

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

You may or may not succeed.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

But that's okay because there is no guarantee in life ever.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

I mean, no philosophy or no attitude can give you a guarantee of succeeding.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

It's not a thing.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

The important part is to regain control of your agency.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

So I would say, for instance, in the particular case of climate change and political turmoil, it's good to be informed, but it's not good to be obsessively following the news or doom-scrolling and all that sort of stuff because that simply depresses you and it really doesn't do anything helpful.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

So maintain a certain broad level of awareness

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

You know, be aware of what's going on, but spend most of your time doing things that actually make a difference rather than reading every article that comes your way or responding to every social media post that you happen to see.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

Yeah, the view from above is a standard stoic technique, which is actually also useful in cognitive behavioral therapy, and there is pretty good modern evidence that it actually works.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

You can do it in a number of ways, but essentially it's about training yourself to zoom out from the specifics of the moment.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

One way to do it is a visual exercise, so you find aโ€ฆ

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

a quiet moment in place in your house, you close your eyes, and then you imagine yourself zooming out from that scene, looking at yourself from above and then looking at your house and then looking at your city and then going further and further out.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

What is the point of these exercises?

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

It's to remind yourself that you're actually part of a much, much broader campus.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

that there is a huge universe, both in space and time, and that therefore, whatever things happen to bother you in the moment, they're really tiny compared to the cosmic perspective.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

Now, the mistake there...

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

is to then think, oh, so they're not important.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

They are important to you at your scale.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

The view from above is just a way to remind you that your scale is not the only one and that there are other meaningful scales at which problems will look very differently.

Hidden Brain
The Power of Family Stories

So the idea is to relax about it and then zoom back in