Matt McCusker

I take that personally.

For some reason, if like, if I'm with my wife and she's not, if she's like expressing that she's not feeling well.

It's a total lack of gratitude.

It fucking pisses me off.

For some reason, I'm like, well, knock it the fuck off and feel well, because when you feel bad, it gives me a bad feeling.

So fucking fix that shit right now.

And I've learned to just be like, that's all right, you know, you're not feeling well.

And if I feel some kind of way about it, I'm just kind of like, that's my problem.

And I let her, you know, just leave her alone and just let her do her thing.

It freaks me out.

Kind of.

Yeah, that's how I felt.

And then it's almost like you like try to help and they're like, I don't want your help.

And you're like, well, fucking now you're pissed at me.

What the fuck did I do to help you?

So I've learned to just be like,

you know, hey man, take your time, figure your shit out.

And I had to really come to grips with the fact, and this was actually really helpful.

We both have Oura rings, which track your sleep and stress level.

And I love that kind of stuff.