Matt Murphy

And it was basically, I don't love you anymore.

I've met somebody else.

And I'm you know, I'm we're done.

And which was.

At the end, looking back, it was diabolically clever to do that because now she was first she was devastated and then she was very angry, as you can sort of imagine.

So plus she you know, she had a million conversations with him about his dream of sailing off into the sunset.

She just always figured it would be with her.

So I think right away, everybody was shocked.

They were shocked that he would do this.

But then when it settled in, they all, you know, they knew about him.

They knew about his dream of surfing the world and they knew about his trips to Indonesia and everything.

know at first it was everybody was shocked and disappointed that he would do that but you know the first couple of weeks you know this was kind of it was consistent in a way not not him leaving everybody in the lurch they were completely flabbergasted at the way he broke up with with erica his girlfriend but um you know it it kind of made sense now what happened was paul

said, hey, you know, after a couple of these emails, they're voluminous.

You know, they went back and forth.

There were emails to his brother.

There were emails to his mother, emails to his father separately.

So these things were they were ongoing.

And the I'm sailing off into the sunset thing turned into, hey, Galapagos were awesome.

Now I'm heading down to Tierra del Fuego and I'm going to check out these islands off Argentina.

And this was an ongoing narrative.