Matt

Because I feel like not just women in relationships, there's usually a partner that feels like they're in control of the finances and the other one that's not. And I don't think she's necessarily wrong for being like, I was kind of hands off in this area because that's how households work, right? It's not like you tag team every single duty, like we both do the same duty 50%.

You just allocate specific duties, usually almost 100%.

You just allocate specific duties, usually almost 100%.

You just allocate specific duties, usually almost 100%.

yes where it's like you do this task i do this task you just i don't think anyone should be like well why does she not have any eyes on it it's like well you know what that maybe wasn't her job and like and how they just decided to split things up i agree and i think that's totally fair and if he was the one handling all of that that's on him to figure it out totally but then if she is also excessively spending then true it was his job though if she let's pretend for a second that she was excessively spending money it's on him to have that conversation with her i

yes where it's like you do this task i do this task you just i don't think anyone should be like well why does she not have any eyes on it it's like well you know what that maybe wasn't her job and like and how they just decided to split things up i agree and i think that's totally fair and if he was the one handling all of that that's on him to figure it out totally but then if she is also excessively spending then true it was his job though if she let's pretend for a second that she was excessively spending money it's on him to have that conversation with her i

yes where it's like you do this task i do this task you just i don't think anyone should be like well why does she not have any eyes on it it's like well you know what that maybe wasn't her job and like and how they just decided to split things up i agree and i think that's totally fair and if he was the one handling all of that that's on him to figure it out totally but then if she is also excessively spending then true it was his job though if she let's pretend for a second that she was excessively spending money it's on him to have that conversation with her i

I cannot imagine being put in that position. That feels really, really hard.

I cannot imagine being put in that position. That feels really, really hard.

I cannot imagine being put in that position. That feels really, really hard.

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I, a 29-year-old male, was warned not to marry my girlfriend, a 28-year-old female, by her best friend. What now? Wow. I've been with my girlfriend for three years and I've been planning to propose in the next couple of months. Recently, we had a group of her friends over and I decided to share my plans with one of her best friends.

I, a 29-year-old male, was warned not to marry my girlfriend, a 28-year-old female, by her best friend. What now? Wow. I've been with my girlfriend for three years and I've been planning to propose in the next couple of months. Recently, we had a group of her friends over and I decided to share my plans with one of her best friends.

I, a 29-year-old male, was warned not to marry my girlfriend, a 28-year-old female, by her best friend. What now? Wow. I've been with my girlfriend for three years and I've been planning to propose in the next couple of months. Recently, we had a group of her friends over and I decided to share my plans with one of her best friends.

When I told him about my plan to propose, he looked a bit uncomfortable. He said, good luck, while glancing around like he wanted to leave. I asked him directly what was bothering him, thinking I could handle whatever he said. That's when he told me he had concerns not about me, but about my girlfriend. According to him, she has a pattern of being emotionally distant in relationships.

When I told him about my plan to propose, he looked a bit uncomfortable. He said, good luck, while glancing around like he wanted to leave. I asked him directly what was bothering him, thinking I could handle whatever he said. That's when he told me he had concerns not about me, but about my girlfriend. According to him, she has a pattern of being emotionally distant in relationships.

When I told him about my plan to propose, he looked a bit uncomfortable. He said, good luck, while glancing around like he wanted to leave. I asked him directly what was bothering him, thinking I could handle whatever he said. That's when he told me he had concerns not about me, but about my girlfriend. According to him, she has a pattern of being emotionally distant in relationships.

He said she's dated people more for convenience than genuine affection and that she only ever seemed truly excited about one guy in the past. He also mentioned that she hasn't been single for more than a year since before high school.