Matt

This is what I think. I think because gay sex is a lot more transactional and a lot more projection-y.

This is what I think. I think because gay sex is a lot more transactional and a lot more projection-y.

so it's like actually it's funny like this person that I was sleeping with we went on our first date and he goes yeah I don't hook up a lot because I feel that it's a lot to do with like projection and I don't really need that like talking about what we were talking about earlier about how like sex actually is like two people coming together and you usually can, I find this too.

so it's like actually it's funny like this person that I was sleeping with we went on our first date and he goes yeah I don't hook up a lot because I feel that it's a lot to do with like projection and I don't really need that like talking about what we were talking about earlier about how like sex actually is like two people coming together and you usually can, I find this too.

It's like when you have like good eye contact with someone or like the conversation is easy, that's why people talk about like the banter and it like just directly translates because that's what this person was looking for and is looking for. And I think even more me and I've never really done like the cruisy thing and the, the, the like random hookup thing. Like, of course I've done, I've,

It's like when you have like good eye contact with someone or like the conversation is easy, that's why people talk about like the banter and it like just directly translates because that's what this person was looking for and is looking for. And I think even more me and I've never really done like the cruisy thing and the, the, the like random hookup thing. Like, of course I've done, I've,

I've experienced it and like experimented, but like I never felt comfortable going in and out of those situations. A lot of people do. And like, that's great. But I think it has to do with just what gay guys are looking for and needing out of sex. And it's just transactional.

I've experienced it and like experimented, but like I never felt comfortable going in and out of those situations. A lot of people do. And like, that's great. But I think it has to do with just what gay guys are looking for and needing out of sex. And it's just transactional.

No, I mean, it was the big audition.

No, I mean, it was the big audition.

LA, I think, well, LA is weird because it's the, king of this looking over your shoulder it's constant and you know what it is it's like it's not even cruising as much as it more is just like constant comparison and like wondering how if you can do better that's kind of and it's not to again I hate dragging a whole city because I love LA and like but I have found with dating it is a lot harder

LA, I think, well, LA is weird because it's the, king of this looking over your shoulder it's constant and you know what it is it's like it's not even cruising as much as it more is just like constant comparison and like wondering how if you can do better that's kind of and it's not to again I hate dragging a whole city because I love LA and like but I have found with dating it is a lot harder

Especially when like you're not like because now I just turned 35. It's like I'm kind of looking now for something that could be my next like relationship. And I understand this. Like I get it. I whatever. But it can be a little demoralizing as you get older and are looking for something else. So better to just take yourself out of the environment entirely, which is why I moved to New York.

Especially when like you're not like because now I just turned 35. It's like I'm kind of looking now for something that could be my next like relationship. And I understand this. Like I get it. I whatever. But it can be a little demoralizing as you get older and are looking for something else. So better to just take yourself out of the environment entirely, which is why I moved to New York.

You can't move back.

You can't move back.

Is it you doing it?

Is it you doing it?

And you know what they were saying? It was... The theory was that it was a bunch of short women doing it. Short women. Because they could just... Not that they're picking on the women, but that was the theory. They were picking on me.

And you know what they were saying? It was... The theory was that it was a bunch of short women doing it. Short women. Because they could just... Not that they're picking on the women, but that was the theory. They were picking on me.