Matthew McConaughey

Well, hang on a minute.

Maybe we want to stop and go, what can I learn from that?

But it, it, it, I don't know of a trick that,

I think there's any trick I would say.

It's just how quickly can we admit the inevitable?

That's what I talk about in the book.

Once you know it's inevitable, how do we get relative?

Not skip it, not throw it to the side, not deny it, which I'd love to talk about that here sometimes too, but the value of denial sometimes.

Yeah.

But how quickly do we...

once something's inevitable, go, okay, any mind and heart time I'm spending about going, no, I can't believe that happened.

No, did that really happen?

Anytime we spend it trying to deny what has already happened, that seems to me to be, I'm not sure the value of that time.

So if there's any trick, I would say, once you know something's inevitable, even though how painful it is or how awesome it is,

Start getting relative with that.

And in the relativity is seeing there's a gift here.

And if I realize that gift, I'm honoring.

Now I'm on to building up the beautiful passage of my father leaving this life.

Now I'm on the march to go, yes, let's let the legacy, let this become omnipresent.

Let him live through me.