Matthew McConaughey

It's like at every red light, I'm like checking out who's next to me in the produce section at the supermarket.

I'm like, who's in the produce section?

You know, it's like looking.

When you're in that zone,

You can also be a little intrusive.

You can trespass on people's, you can get outside of yourself.

You can be overly impressed and not as involved and have your own constitution and sit back.

And therefore, if you're outside of yourself, you're less attractive to your possible mate.

I've got a series of,

Dreams that are written about, but I had one then that was very spiritual.

That was me as an 88-year-old bachelor who never got married.

And it was a beautiful dream.

Where on paper, I thought that should be a nightmare.

It wasn't.

What that dream did for me was allow me to go, you may not find the woman for you and get married.

And have a life with her.

That may not be.

And for the first time in life, I was okay with that.

More than intellectually, spiritually, I was grounded.

I was like, okay.