Matua Mark
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I think for me, this is incredibly case-by-case scenario.
I'm not a big fan of throwing a blanket answer out here to something like this.
It really depends on the type of breakup.
It depends on the type of maturity.
It depends on the boundaries that are understood, if there's any.
So I think there's no right way to answer this, but I really think that it's case-by-case.
I think what's hard to expect people to, is to be with someone and then just expect them to go cold turkey.
Sometimes, sometimes, you know, you are grieving in an amicable way that this person, like, you used to orbit around each other, right?
All of a sudden, like, you're not in that orbit.
So we all think of this like, no, if you're gonna be friends, you're gonna have feelings again.
That's just not the case for every type of situation.
It really is dependent.
I would say the math says that very few ex people that used to be together can operate in the same space over a long period of time and it'd be all good.
So I think the data says that there has to be an eventual separation, but.
And the friends into... Yes, into woven into all of that.