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Maya Shankar

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TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

These days, you can find her snowboarding and rock climbing on the weekends.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

Christine shared with me something that she could have never have imagined thinking before all this.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

that if given the choice today, she would choose not to have her vision restored.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

Though she did tell me she'd like it back for a moment because she really wants to know what Justin Bieber looks like.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

All right, let's move on to the second question.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

This one is about our values, and it's inspired by a conversation I had with a science journalist named Florence Williams.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

One evening about five years ago, Florence and her husband were hosting a dinner party for their friends.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

As she was preparing the salad, her husband handed her his phone so that she could read an email from her relative.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

But he'd mistakenly pulled up the wrong email.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

What Florence saw instead was a lengthy note from her husband confessing his love to another woman.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

I know.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

Florence's 25-year marriage came to an end, and she told me that she was taken aback by the physical and emotional intensity of her heartbreak.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

She said it felt like she'd been plugged into a faulty electrical socket.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

Since Florence is a problem solver by nature, she instinctively saw her heartbreak as a problem to solve and developed a year-long systematic plan to try and fix it.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

Florence tried a bunch of things.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

She took solo trips into the wilderness.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

She tried a range of experimental therapies.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

She even went to the Museum of Broken Relationships, which I promise is a thing.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

You name it, she tried it.

TED Talks Daily
TED Talks Daily Book Club: Why change is so scary — and how to unlock its potential | Maya Shankar (re-release)

But by the end of the year, none of these remedies had healed her broken heart.