Megan

Well, I am in love with my best friend of about 17 years, and I need to figure out how to let this go. This is not working for me at all.

Well, I am in love with my best friend of about 17 years, and I need to figure out how to let this go. This is not working for me at all.

Well, I am in love with my best friend of about 17 years, and I need to figure out how to let this go. This is not working for me at all.

You know, I think that that is the biggest part that I'm struggling with. We met a long time ago. I've always been interested in him, and he has been vocal about the fact that he does not feel the same way. It wasn't a big deal or anything. you know, the longest time. I just kind of let it go. He had his relationships. I had mine, whatever. But he opened a business a couple of years ago.

You know, I think that that is the biggest part that I'm struggling with. We met a long time ago. I've always been interested in him, and he has been vocal about the fact that he does not feel the same way. It wasn't a big deal or anything. you know, the longest time. I just kind of let it go. He had his relationships. I had mine, whatever. But he opened a business a couple of years ago.

You know, I think that that is the biggest part that I'm struggling with. We met a long time ago. I've always been interested in him, and he has been vocal about the fact that he does not feel the same way. It wasn't a big deal or anything. you know, the longest time. I just kind of let it go. He had his relationships. I had mine, whatever. But he opened a business a couple of years ago.

And I thought that it would be a great idea to just push my way right in there. They weren't hiring. They don't have any other employees. And I was just like, I'm going to work here. And they eventually were just like, okay, fine. So now I work there. And since that,

And I thought that it would be a great idea to just push my way right in there. They weren't hiring. They don't have any other employees. And I was just like, I'm going to work here. And they eventually were just like, okay, fine. So now I work there. And since that,

And I thought that it would be a great idea to just push my way right in there. They weren't hiring. They don't have any other employees. And I was just like, I'm going to work here. And they eventually were just like, okay, fine. So now I work there. And since that,

happened our relationship has just become so much closer so we see each other all the time we talk all the time like if if it's slow at work we could sit there for five hours and just be chatting but nothing has changed on his end in terms of like yeah you're my friend and i think you're cool and i like talking to you but i'm not looking for anything else no no definitely not and i'm not um i'm not delusional to that um

happened our relationship has just become so much closer so we see each other all the time we talk all the time like if if it's slow at work we could sit there for five hours and just be chatting but nothing has changed on his end in terms of like yeah you're my friend and i think you're cool and i like talking to you but i'm not looking for anything else no no definitely not and i'm not um i'm not delusional to that um

happened our relationship has just become so much closer so we see each other all the time we talk all the time like if if it's slow at work we could sit there for five hours and just be chatting but nothing has changed on his end in terms of like yeah you're my friend and i think you're cool and i like talking to you but i'm not looking for anything else no no definitely not and i'm not um i'm not delusional to that um

But and I feel like it's not even the point that he doesn't want to be with me. That's the issue is that I won't let it go. So he he uses me a lot as like his emotional support.

But and I feel like it's not even the point that he doesn't want to be with me. That's the issue is that I won't let it go. So he he uses me a lot as like his emotional support.

But and I feel like it's not even the point that he doesn't want to be with me. That's the issue is that I won't let it go. So he he uses me a lot as like his emotional support.

Well, I guess I shouldn't. I mean, sometimes I do actually feel that way.

Well, I guess I shouldn't. I mean, sometimes I do actually feel that way.

Well, I guess I shouldn't. I mean, sometimes I do actually feel that way.

But yeah. I try to put up boundaries with him more than once. Like what? Don't talk to me about girl problems that you're having. I can be your friend and support you in other things, but I don't want our conversations to always focus on all of the girls that are surrounding you all the time. But then when I put up that boundary and he follows it, we don't talk probably at all.

But yeah. I try to put up boundaries with him more than once. Like what? Don't talk to me about girl problems that you're having. I can be your friend and support you in other things, but I don't want our conversations to always focus on all of the girls that are surrounding you all the time. But then when I put up that boundary and he follows it, we don't talk probably at all.