Mel Robbins

See if you can hear

And identify in your own mind, what is the decision that Jenna needs to make that would break her free of feeling stuck?

Now, as you were listening, did you notice the trap?

The trap is she has not made a decision to change yet.

And this one's kind of sneaky because she's talking about the fact, and you may feel this too, I feel like I'm meant to do something more.

I feel this pull to do something creative.

So she's thinking about it, and you can hear some of the reasons why she's not ready because

I'm tired.

I don't have the energy.

Can I start something new?

She's questioning, right?

But did you hear a decision?

I didn't hear a decision.

I heard somebody who wants to change, but I didn't hear a person who has made a decision to change.

And it's a very subtle distinction.

But this is the difference between staying stuck and spinning your wheels in a mental loop

and getting yourself unstuck and breaking free and making a decision to create a whole new chapter in your life.

And look, the decision doesn't have to be complicated.

It's like a line in the sand.

What could Jenna say?