Mel Robbins

I heard somebody who wants to change, but I didn't hear a person who has made a decision to change.

And it's a very subtle distinction.

But this is the difference between staying stuck and spinning your wheels in a mental loop

and getting yourself unstuck and breaking free and making a decision to create a whole new chapter in your life.

And look, the decision doesn't have to be complicated.

It's like a line in the sand.

What could Jenna say?

As you're sitting here hosting this episode with me, what could Jenna say?

What would a decision sound like?

It could be something simple like, I'm making a decision.

to make the next chapter of my career creative, no matter what.

I'm making a decision that 12 months from now, I am going to be working in a creative industry.

I'm going to have a full-time job and I'm going to wake up every day and I'm going to love and look forward to what I'm doing.

That's my decision.

Here's another way you could make the decision.

This is the year that

I learn how to make time for what matters to me.

Do you hear the difference between somebody questioning, I should, I could, what if, but this, but that's a person that's not ready.

That's a person in contemplation.

When you hear somebody make a decision, it's clear.