Melinda French Gates

And I think what I say to people is that in those times, it does take courage and it can be terrifying.

But what happens on the other side is the growth is what happens in the in-between.

And it's the growth that you do during that time, even if it's hard and painful, it's what carries you through.

And then you have this big, wide opening on the other side.

And a lot of it you just don't know is even coming.

I feel so completely unfinished.

And I have no idea what's going to come next in my life.

Next year, next month, three years from now.

But it's beautiful.

I'm actually learning that those are great big openings.

And just accept them and enjoy them, right?

Yeah.

Thank you.

What do you wish people knew about, let's say, when they're making a career change, or in your case, it sounds like you made a marital change.

What do you want them to know?

Yeah.

We have to.

And I often think of it as drops in the bucket.

Like I started my, the walking group that I'm with, I started, my kids were in grade school, you know, and so yes, it would be an hour on Monday morning.

after carpool, right?