Melinda French Gates

I would never want to raise kids that way.

So I learned over time, I work against that opposition to see it helps shape who I don't want to be.

Totally.

The

The last thing I'll say about this is just I also work against the knots in life, the K-N-O-T-S.

So sometimes when something's really hard and gnarly and you can't figure it out and it's bothering you and stuff, that's where the biggest growth is.

And I need to look at that and sort of try and relax the pressure on myself and say, this is tough, but I'm going to figure out my way through it.

And that's where I've grown and learned also the most.

Yeah.

Then there you were as a result of that.

And you find out who your essence is.

Yeah.

The values they put in us and taught us and how they taught us to learn and that's why I first – back in the day when they were hardly anywhere had computers.

We had computers.

It's where I learned I wanted – I could be good in computer science, good in math.

So I knew who I was when I went out in the world.

And I think that I've learned this happens to a lot of women.

We know who we are, but we go into college or we go into the workplace or we go into that environment and people start to chip away at us and say, you can't be that.

You can't do that.

And at least for me, I sort of built up that.