Melissa Vranjes

Yeah.

And it's, like, not something... Like, that's something... It's for you and... Is it?

it comes with shame yeah of course so where does that come from yeah well I think shame disgust um a grossness like you shouldn't be doing it if you're in a relationship like if you're doing it in your when you're in a relationship means that you're not having a good sex like you're not having good sex so I think oh yeah because you think you feel guilty yeah like

Yeah.

Okay.

Let's go back to where does that come from?

Your question of like shame.

Did you say shame?

Yeah.

Shame.

So first off, I think we've normalized wanking.

We've normalized boys touching themselves, men touching themselves at school.

I don't know about you, but for me, it was always like, yeah, I'm going to have a wank or like, yeah, rub one out.

And it was always very acceptable.

But if a

honestly if we go a bit deeper than this it's just like female sexuality suppressed you know it comes down to that and it's like women don't do that it's dirty that's disgusting why do you why are you doing that you know if we even date all the way back when the first vibrator was created it was like there was hysteria there because women had so much sexual tension and this vibrator was I don't know what year that would have been I can't remember but

it was created, the big vibrator, so women could release sexual tension.

And yet prior to that,

like wanking and men pleasuring was normalized you know so it's just like that shame comes from like centuries centuries of our female sexuality being suppressed that's why i don't like talking about it yeah yeah actually though you know it's like men's pleasure self-pleasuring very normalized women's self-pleasuring like not at all

Yeah, well, most women were taught that it's shameful, it's dirty, it's disgusting, you shouldn't do it.