Melissa Wood-Tepperberg

And, you know, I mean, you wrote an entire book on the lessons of love.

Can you just give us, you've been with your wife for a long time.

It's a long time.

Through marriage and just, you know, I think the longevity of being with someone for so, like, it's like you start, you literally marry so many different versions within those years.

Right?

I mean, my husband had no idea what he was getting himself into.

None.

I'm like, did you think he's like...

No.

He's like, I knew there was greatness, but like, I didn't know it was going to be this great, which is, it's a beautiful thing.

Like how does, how do you stay so connected with your wife?

Yeah.

I can see her doing that.

Yeah, that's different.

First of all, what you said, it was so deeply heartfelt about your wife.

And I feel like with me making the like, oh, I didn't even mean to like interrupt that moment because it was so beautiful.

And you you can really feel that when you're in a partnership with someone who.

has your like your full embrace right now on the flip everything you just said has been me in every single relationship that I've been in even with my husband I can own that however through my own

transformation and being able to like see my stuff and to see that control is something that has always stood in the way of everything for me and really surrendering to it.

And like, you know, I'm in wellness.