Melissa

Yeah. I think what you're talking about in terms of that probably hanging on too long, I think Obviously that's something I did in my marriage. I found as I was dating, following the marriage ending, I found that I was repeating that behavior a lot where I continually wanted to give someone the benefit of the doubt and give them that second chance.

Yeah. I think what you're talking about in terms of that probably hanging on too long, I think Obviously that's something I did in my marriage. I found as I was dating, following the marriage ending, I found that I was repeating that behavior a lot where I continually wanted to give someone the benefit of the doubt and give them that second chance.

Yeah. I think what you're talking about in terms of that probably hanging on too long, I think Obviously that's something I did in my marriage. I found as I was dating, following the marriage ending, I found that I was repeating that behavior a lot where I continually wanted to give someone the benefit of the doubt and give them that second chance.

And it took a while to realize that the same behavior, the same mentality that had kept me in that marriage was starting to Keep me in some of these. I mean, I've been through the situations. I've been through all those different scenarios.

And it took a while to realize that the same behavior, the same mentality that had kept me in that marriage was starting to Keep me in some of these. I mean, I've been through the situations. I've been through all those different scenarios.

And it took a while to realize that the same behavior, the same mentality that had kept me in that marriage was starting to Keep me in some of these. I mean, I've been through the situations. I've been through all those different scenarios.

And I realized I was doing that same thing where if I didn't like how something was happening toward me, I thought, well, you know, they have this going on in their life. I'm going to give them this benefit of the doubt. And I would find myself in that same trap. And it was only really recently that I finally broke that cycle. Und jetzt spreche ich nicht mit jemandem.

And I realized I was doing that same thing where if I didn't like how something was happening toward me, I thought, well, you know, they have this going on in their life. I'm going to give them this benefit of the doubt. And I would find myself in that same trap. And it was only really recently that I finally broke that cycle. Und jetzt spreche ich nicht mit jemandem.

And I realized I was doing that same thing where if I didn't like how something was happening toward me, I thought, well, you know, they have this going on in their life. I'm going to give them this benefit of the doubt. And I would find myself in that same trap. And it was only really recently that I finally broke that cycle. Und jetzt spreche ich nicht mit jemandem.

Ich meine, das ist die erste Zeit und wahrscheinlich seit der Verbrechung passiert, dass ich keine aktive Beziehung zu einer Person oder einer Person habe, mit der ich datieren möchte. Und ich denke, dass etwas in mir geflogen ist, wo ich früher auf dieser Mannheit war, wer diese Person war.

Ich meine, das ist die erste Zeit und wahrscheinlich seit der Verbrechung passiert, dass ich keine aktive Beziehung zu einer Person oder einer Person habe, mit der ich datieren möchte. Und ich denke, dass etwas in mir geflogen ist, wo ich früher auf dieser Mannheit war, wer diese Person war.

Ich meine, das ist die erste Zeit und wahrscheinlich seit der Verbrechung passiert, dass ich keine aktive Beziehung zu einer Person oder einer Person habe, mit der ich datieren möchte. Und ich denke, dass etwas in mir geflogen ist, wo ich früher auf dieser Mannheit war, wer diese Person war.

Ich war auf der Dating App, also sprach ich mit jemandem, der mir die Aufmerksamkeit geben würde, schmerzhaft das zu sagen. Und Now that I've come out on the other end and I've looked at everything and my behaviors with my dating, I looked at the behaviors that even led me to that marriage with that man. Now I feel like I've seen too much. Now I don't want to go on the dating apps.

Ich war auf der Dating App, also sprach ich mit jemandem, der mir die Aufmerksamkeit geben würde, schmerzhaft das zu sagen. Und Now that I've come out on the other end and I've looked at everything and my behaviors with my dating, I looked at the behaviors that even led me to that marriage with that man. Now I feel like I've seen too much. Now I don't want to go on the dating apps.

Ich war auf der Dating App, also sprach ich mit jemandem, der mir die Aufmerksamkeit geben würde, schmerzhaft das zu sagen. Und Now that I've come out on the other end and I've looked at everything and my behaviors with my dating, I looked at the behaviors that even led me to that marriage with that man. Now I feel like I've seen too much. Now I don't want to go on the dating apps.

I get hesitant when anyone is clocking me at the gym or wanting to talk to me. I don't want another scenario. I don't want another scenario where I have to try to read this person, where I have to try to figure out Can something happen where I don't want to? What's the endgame? It's like it's too much. It's overstimulating.

I get hesitant when anyone is clocking me at the gym or wanting to talk to me. I don't want another scenario. I don't want another scenario where I have to try to read this person, where I have to try to figure out Can something happen where I don't want to? What's the endgame? It's like it's too much. It's overstimulating.

I get hesitant when anyone is clocking me at the gym or wanting to talk to me. I don't want another scenario. I don't want another scenario where I have to try to read this person, where I have to try to figure out Can something happen where I don't want to? What's the endgame? It's like it's too much. It's overstimulating.

And so now I'm just kind of wondering when will that change where I'm willing to feel that hurt again or even know how to act when that situation presents itself. So it's overwhelmingly paralyzing, I think.

And so now I'm just kind of wondering when will that change where I'm willing to feel that hurt again or even know how to act when that situation presents itself. So it's overwhelmingly paralyzing, I think.