Mellody Hobson
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She said, they said, where's your mom? She said, my mom's at work. They said, work. Wow. So we were explaining to her at five years old, we're like, everyone doesn't have a mom and dad. Some people have neither. Some people live with their grandpas or their grandmas or their aunts or uncles or a friend. Everyone doesn't have a job.
It was this living example that we could explain to a five-year-old. But George is the one who said, go and show her, don't explain that.
It was this living example that we could explain to a five-year-old. But George is the one who said, go and show her, don't explain that.
It was this living example that we could explain to a five-year-old. But George is the one who said, go and show her, don't explain that.
But you also get a great sense of value out of working and getting a paycheck. It's something that creates self-confidence.
But you also get a great sense of value out of working and getting a paycheck. It's something that creates self-confidence.
But you also get a great sense of value out of working and getting a paycheck. It's something that creates self-confidence.
Okay, I think you laid out a lot of very useful and interesting facts about how you're setting this up. I'm struck by one thing, however, I will tell you. I also would great humility say, I am not here to tell you what's right for you and your family. I'm just going to react to one thing, which is the 80-20. I think that he will feel that that is very aggressive. Yeah.
Okay, I think you laid out a lot of very useful and interesting facts about how you're setting this up. I'm struck by one thing, however, I will tell you. I also would great humility say, I am not here to tell you what's right for you and your family. I'm just going to react to one thing, which is the 80-20. I think that he will feel that that is very aggressive. Yeah.
Okay, I think you laid out a lot of very useful and interesting facts about how you're setting this up. I'm struck by one thing, however, I will tell you. I also would great humility say, I am not here to tell you what's right for you and your family. I'm just going to react to one thing, which is the 80-20. I think that he will feel that that is very aggressive. Yeah.
And I think that that will make him resent saving. Yes. And if he's already pushed back on it, it is so, towards the saving versus the spend. You're doing a great thing, but you might be hardening him against, and at some point he just wants to rebel from this and not do it at all. That doesn't feel balanced to me.
And I think that that will make him resent saving. Yes. And if he's already pushed back on it, it is so, towards the saving versus the spend. You're doing a great thing, but you might be hardening him against, and at some point he just wants to rebel from this and not do it at all. That doesn't feel balanced to me.
And I think that that will make him resent saving. Yes. And if he's already pushed back on it, it is so, towards the saving versus the spend. You're doing a great thing, but you might be hardening him against, and at some point he just wants to rebel from this and not do it at all. That doesn't feel balanced to me.
off balance it's a little aggressive and then therefore it puts you in the the pickle on the other things about supplementing and if he's earning it he should be able to spend a larger portion to me and i don't know what the absolute dollars are that might be something you're trying to control and that doesn't mean going out being whole hog the other thing about it is if you went to a larger percentage those in between times wouldn't be a drought
off balance it's a little aggressive and then therefore it puts you in the the pickle on the other things about supplementing and if he's earning it he should be able to spend a larger portion to me and i don't know what the absolute dollars are that might be something you're trying to control and that doesn't mean going out being whole hog the other thing about it is if you went to a larger percentage those in between times wouldn't be a drought
off balance it's a little aggressive and then therefore it puts you in the the pickle on the other things about supplementing and if he's earning it he should be able to spend a larger portion to me and i don't know what the absolute dollars are that might be something you're trying to control and that doesn't mean going out being whole hog the other thing about it is if you went to a larger percentage those in between times wouldn't be a drought
You know, he actually might be able to keep himself going during those in-between times. What I don't like is when the kid has to come back to the parents constantly, I need this, I need this. And so then they think, you know, you're never sort of putting them on their own two feet because they have to ask permission from you.
You know, he actually might be able to keep himself going during those in-between times. What I don't like is when the kid has to come back to the parents constantly, I need this, I need this. And so then they think, you know, you're never sort of putting them on their own two feet because they have to ask permission from you.
You know, he actually might be able to keep himself going during those in-between times. What I don't like is when the kid has to come back to the parents constantly, I need this, I need this. And so then they think, you know, you're never sort of putting them on their own two feet because they have to ask permission from you.
If you had said 30, if you had said 50, I would have been doing the Hallelujah Chorus. But I would I think 20 percent is a bit austere. Yes. Yeah.