Michaela

Since then, he's basically shut down.

He hasn't been speaking to me for the past two weeks.

He stopped by this weekend to spend some time with the kids, but he's been staying at his parents' house in the

I feel really torn.

I want to support him, especially given everything he's going through with his family, but I also feel overwhelmed, hurt, and honestly, a little abandoned.

It feels like I'm being asked to carry everything again, just when things were finally becoming stable.

Am I the asshole for not supporting my husband's goals?

Like no conversation?

Yeah.

No, like, what do you think of this?

I'm very, like, obviously in an emotionally...

intense situation with my parents.

I'm kind of feeling like things are really out of control and I'm, I'm seeing what they're going through in the healthcare system.

And it's like, it's really upsetting.

I want to make a difference.

Like no conversation.

It's just, I want to quit to become a doctor.

No.

And there's some comments from OP that we're going to get into that like also makes it even more confusing to where I'm like, I get where he's coming from,

But like, like even up until this point, he hasn't even been a good partner.