Michelle Morfett

Yeah.

But, um, no, it's so far.

When, when the pressure starts to build up, I'm like, God, I wish I was the dad.

This would be so much easier because even though Jordan does heaps of the like home kids stuff.

Just because I'm the mum, I'm still the default parent.

They make me do everything for them.

So the way I juggle it...

oh it's hard yeah and I could actually just complain about it forever because it's so hard and especially not having like any family help really so I just get it done I yeah like when it's really hard how do you go like okay there's no point just thinking that it's really hard and talking about it like that forever you've just got to get on to sending out the next cake then getting a CAD drawing designed up or something yeah what like what drives you to then go okay we're just gonna keep going

Um, I think because I want to do the classic Kiwi dream thing, you know, go on a overseas holiday every year, live in a nice house in a nice suburb, that kind of family life.

That's what I'm like, we need to get this website done so we can move out of South Auckland and move like somewhere we want to live.

So yeah.

They, um,

Even in the morning trying to get them ready, like it's chaos because parenting is easy.

But the fact that like they just want to muck around and do like everything in their own time, that's the hard part.

It's like all the bargaining.

So then by the time I get to work at nine o'clock, the bakers have already been there since 5.30.

So that's a big chunk of their work.

Yeah.

day already done I'm like blustered it'll take me an hour to settle in and then I'll do a couple of hours work and then it's already time to pick the kids up but then I will work in the evenings every single evening if I'm not at work I'm still thinking of work

Yeah.