Michelle Obama

To survive.

Just to survive.

You know, women don't have to dress a certain way to lead on somebody who has misogynistic, you know, a lot of times we blame ourselves and say, well, if I, you know, look, you leaned in because you wore that dress and you, you know, but it is a tricky balance because, you know, if you're in a professional setting and wearing a dress or a certain, if that is the standard,

then you are a little, you know, you do have to be thoughtful.

So we have to think a lot more.

I mean, it's just, this is also what I'm saying in the book, right?

I mean, to strike that balance and to be thoughtful about what messages we're sending, giving, receiving, men don't do that.

My husband wasn't doing that.

Same suit, put on blue suit, white shirt, different tie, you know?

My outfit, this is a Meredith Koop original.

And as we were thinking about promotions for the tour, there is a...

They are...

Once again, you don't have to evolve.

See, we're even evolving.

What do I call myself?

We're changing up here.

It's like I went through that too when I got married.

I was like, okay, I'm going to be Michelle Robinson Obama.

I did that.

I was in a real career and I felt like this is a lot of name.