Michelle

Like, and then, you know, I kind of start to question myself, like, okay, well, if it's such, you know, it seems like common sense to me.

If you can afford it and you want to do it, you should.

But it's like, well, why is no one I know doing this?

So I don't know if it's just a cultural thing or what, but that kind of gets in my head.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And that's kind of another thing we've talked about is, um, just like choices, making choices is cause, um, the money, you know, if we do want to buy a house, we'd,

want to buy a house kind of out in the country.

And, you know, an argument there would be raising our kids a certain type of way with certain experiences.

So that's kind of something we talk about is even if we do save money doing one thing, it's, you know, could be beneficial for the kids in the other way.

So yeah, definitely.

Right.

Yeah.

Yeah, that's good to hear the piece about just, you know, united parents is kind of number one.

Because I definitely feel like whatever we end up doing, it'll, you know, we'll...

we will come to a healthy decision and yeah, stay united in that decision.

So that's reassuring to hear.

Yeah.

Oi, meu nome é Viabilizer, tudo bem? Meu nome é Michelle, eu falo de São Paulo, capital. Débora, eu também sou uma pessoa com deficiência, não é mais uma deficiência da sua ex-esposa, ainda bem que é ex, mas também é uma deficiência, como todas, que me limita em alguns aspectos e que às vezes eu preciso de ajuda, mas eu te garanto que o desejo maior de toda pessoa com deficiência, ao contrário do que as pessoas sem deficiência acham, não é a nossa deficiência acabar, é a gente conseguir ser independente para não precisar de nada.