Mick Hunt

And that's how we define it.

So as a grown adult now, what I've realized, Rudy, is I don't put myself in uncomfortable slash tense situations.

I can get uncomfortable when I'm trying to learn something, when I'm personally trying to grow.

Right.

Like I want to be uncomfortable in that sense.

I don't want to be uncomfortable around human beings.

And so I don't put myself in those situations anymore.

Yeah.

So, so here's how I'm going to answer that.

I'm going to say it makes you closer.

Yes.

But here's how it makes you closer.

You got to start having those conversations early.

meaning even from a friendship perspective, like my close friends, we talk about race, right?

My close friends, we talk about everything because that lets us know viewpoints, that lets us know feelings, that lets us know, hey, when there's a real situation, how are you going to respond?

And I want to know that.

And so from a spouse standpoint, from a dating standpoint, we have those conversations.

We ask pointed questions, right?

Like, you know, there's two things that I used to ask as an adult when I was dating.

What's your credit score?