Mike Carruthers

That's the key phrase there, I think, because we all, I mean, I like to think I would go out of my way to help somebody, but if I did it all the time, then yeah, that would be a big problem.

Well, I love that phrase, you know, setting yourself on fire to keep somebody else warm because that nails it.

I mean, that's the perfect visual.

I know exactly what you mean.

And I bet all of us, well, not all of us, but many of us have done that and then regretted it, you know, or thought, yeah, this just didn't work right.

Well, I think an awful lot of people listening can relate to this whole idea of behaviors that you do repeatedly that you really wish you wouldn't.

And I admire your willingness to share your journey with what you went through to help other people.

Katie Morton has been my guest.

She's a licensed marriage and family therapist, and she's author of a book called Why Do I Keep Doing This?

Unlearn the Habits Keeping You Stuck and Unhappy.

And there's a link to her book at Amazon in the show notes.

If you want to lose weight, you should exercise more.

I think most people believe that, and it's not really true.

The uncomfortable truth is that exercise is one of the least efficient ways to lose weight.

Now, it's great for your heart and your brain and your mood and your lifespan, and exercise is excellent at preventing weight gain.

But when researchers look at weight loss specifically, exercise alone produces far less fat loss than people expect.

Why?

Well, it's because the body adapts.

When you burn more calories through exercise, you often get hungrier.

You may unconsciously move less later in the day.