Mike Durant

Yeah.

It's just thinking about that moment, you know, when you love someone and you think about...

situation when they were in unfathomable pain or sorrow.

That hurts me worse than my own experience by far.

And I can't help it.

It's the one thing that still really gets to me.

And that daughter who she was pregnant with just visited us in Alabama, expecting her third.

They already have two.

And she's expecting her third.

She's a great mom.

Kids are fantastic.

So you carry on.

It's like you said, you know, you carry on.

What else would they want you to do?

You know, they want you to carry on and remember them.

One of the most profound things that was sent to me, I couldn't possibly read all the letters, but I read a bunch of them.

And it was a cancer survivor who during treatment was in a group.

And in the end, she was the only survivor.

And everybody talked to her about survivor guilt and survivor guilt.

And I don't remember if she said she had it or didn't have it, but she said, look back, but don't stare.