Miranda Maday

No, I was just going to say, marriage is super interesting. I think that I grew up always wanting to be married. And I watched... my parents go through a divorce and I was like, I will never do that. And I listened to a lot of the things that my straight mother said advice wise. And I don't think that those things necessarily fully exist in my relationship dynamic.

Like there were so many things that I was told was like, You know, if you don't sleep in the same bed, that's the road to divorce. If you don't do these things, it's a road to divorce. So then in my own situation, right, like Raven is a kind of bizarre sleeper. Honey, I'll sleep in another room. She wants to sleep on the couch. She likes having separate spaces.

Like there were so many things that I was told was like, You know, if you don't sleep in the same bed, that's the road to divorce. If you don't do these things, it's a road to divorce. So then in my own situation, right, like Raven is a kind of bizarre sleeper. Honey, I'll sleep in another room. She wants to sleep on the couch. She likes having separate spaces.

Like there were so many things that I was told was like, You know, if you don't sleep in the same bed, that's the road to divorce. If you don't do these things, it's a road to divorce. So then in my own situation, right, like Raven is a kind of bizarre sleeper. Honey, I'll sleep in another room. She wants to sleep on the couch. She likes having separate spaces.

She wants to sleep on the floor sometimes. She wants to sleep with her feet out. where the head would usually go in the bed. Literally happened last night. So the fact that I had to train my, or I had to learn, not even train myself, I had to learn that the fact that Raven and I may not sleep together in the same bed every night doesn't mean we're on a road to divorce. Yeah.

She wants to sleep on the floor sometimes. She wants to sleep with her feet out. where the head would usually go in the bed. Literally happened last night. So the fact that I had to train my, or I had to learn, not even train myself, I had to learn that the fact that Raven and I may not sleep together in the same bed every night doesn't mean we're on a road to divorce. Yeah.

She wants to sleep on the floor sometimes. She wants to sleep with her feet out. where the head would usually go in the bed. Literally happened last night. So the fact that I had to train my, or I had to learn, not even train myself, I had to learn that the fact that Raven and I may not sleep together in the same bed every night doesn't mean we're on a road to divorce. Yeah.

I had to like actually become more comfortable with letting the pieces kind of fall as is where I had all of this tension initially in getting married about like, we have to do it this kind of straight laced, straight way, this traditional way, or it's a, it's a sign. It's a sign that things are wrong.

I had to like actually become more comfortable with letting the pieces kind of fall as is where I had all of this tension initially in getting married about like, we have to do it this kind of straight laced, straight way, this traditional way, or it's a, it's a sign. It's a sign that things are wrong.

I had to like actually become more comfortable with letting the pieces kind of fall as is where I had all of this tension initially in getting married about like, we have to do it this kind of straight laced, straight way, this traditional way, or it's a, it's a sign. It's a sign that things are wrong.

And I think that like that happened, that has happened with me with sex where you hear people like, if you're not having sex, you know, every night, something's wrong to those fucking people.

And I think that like that happened, that has happened with me with sex where you hear people like, if you're not having sex, you know, every night, something's wrong to those fucking people.

And I think that like that happened, that has happened with me with sex where you hear people like, if you're not having sex, you know, every night, something's wrong to those fucking people.

Oh my God. No, I mean, it's not, it's not.

Oh my God. No, I mean, it's not, it's not.

Oh my God. No, I mean, it's not, it's not.

Yeah, it was really thoughtful. I don't know. I think that it's just interesting. Being in a long-term relationship, you get to really learn more about yourself. You get to learn about a person. You get to learn what you've learned in the past.

Yeah, it was really thoughtful. I don't know. I think that it's just interesting. Being in a long-term relationship, you get to really learn more about yourself. You get to learn about a person. You get to learn what you've learned in the past.

Yeah, it was really thoughtful. I don't know. I think that it's just interesting. Being in a long-term relationship, you get to really learn more about yourself. You get to learn about a person. You get to learn what you've learned in the past.

We're each other's chosen family. And I think that's really beautiful. And there are, like you said, there's going to be ebbs and flows and everything. There's also no right way. There's no right way to do it.