Mitch

Yeah, I called in. I've been having a little bit of trouble with my... with my wife and I was looking to try and get a little bit of, um, advice.

Um, so my wife works as a nurse at a large hospital and, um, I work from home and in a tech company and, um, some of her interests have kind of changed. Um, she came home and kind of let me know that she had interest towards a coworker. and kind of caused a little bit of a tough between us. And then, um, I found out she was hanging out with some of her male doctors at their house.

And, uh, she said that she was actually hanging out with some of her other coworkers who were different in a more social scene. So, um, uh, Just been trying to kind of work through that and get on the same page and see what's going on. I was kind of wondering what your thoughts and opinions were.

Um, I think I'm just trying to come to the sense of reality of it.

That makes sense.

we've been together for 12 years now. Okay. And, uh, we got married a little bit before COVID.

Yes, sir.

Um, I kind of just started to find out about this towards the middle of end of last year.

I was a little frustrated to say the least.

Um, yeah, definitely. I didn't know where this came from.

Yes. And no, she did not cheat on me during that time. Okay.

It's a good question. Um, we're trying to go to therapy at the moment to try and get an understanding. She indicated that she didn't cheat on me. She needed a father figure or another person who's more of a superiority individual to like talk about stuff with because what she does as a nurse is very traumatic. Um, she works in an OR room.

Then they do a lot of, you know, they are saving life and death, I guess. And I don't know. She just kind of indicated that she never really cheated on me. She went to somebody else. It was more like an emotional type thing. I don't know if that helped to provide any context, but I don't, I don't buy it.

Yeah.

The individual no longer works there is what she told me after some time.

She actually turned her location off and said it was overarching and overpowering.

Eventually she did. After some time.

Three.

Yeah. And I hate that.

We do split everything, which is... you know, nice and have separate bank accounts and things. No, that's terrible. That's terrible.

I feel like there might be a few areas of the painting that still needs to be drawn out.

But it's mostly there.