Moana Hope

He's not lucky.

He just has a love that he deserves as a child.

And it just made me go, wow, we're worlds apart.

Yeah, it really does.

And do you know what else?

Do you have a thing that's really healed me?

Not that I have kids to heal me.

I didn't do that.

I have kids because I love them.

But I didn't unexpectedly heal me.

I love both my kids equally, 100% equally.

I think having a son restored my faith in men because I look at him and I go, you're gentle and you're beautiful and you're kind and

And so if I can nurture you, that's the person that you are.

And men don't just grow up to be mean and men don't grow up to inflict pain and violence.

And so because I've only ever been hurt by men, that was how I felt about men.

And so I feel like having a son makes me feel like, you know, I don't want to say not all men, but, you know, it gives me faith.

I have an opportunity to raise two healthy kids regardless of gender and I'm going to raise them the exact same and I'm going to make sure that they both know that the world has endless possibilities for both of them and there's no such thing as gender and nobody can ever tell them no.

Oh, my mom is a grandma to like 90 kids.

There's like 90 or something.

Nine zero, not one nine.